It has been such a long time since I have wrote on here and so many things have changed, for the best of course!
I'll start back from November and work our way forward to catch everyone up! We did separate in November. I moved back to my home town to excape the drama that Wellington offered. I kept Chloe in school out there, so everyday I drive her back and forth. No biggie, it kept things pretty normal for her. Shortly after separating, Jason and I agree to take our time and see how things play out. Our anniversary is New Years Eve and we actually went to dinner together. It was nice, being able to laugh and get along!
February 2, we went to divorce court and the divorce was finalized. Around that time, Jason and the girls started going to church with a couple we are good friends with. Then, one day our Pastor was talking about disciples and Jason asked if I would like to attend a service. I went and just loved it! I grew up Luthern, and this church is Pentecostal and its so incredible! I love the band that plays, I love the energy, happiness and the good feeling I have when I leave. I have been attending church since the end of February. It really has been such a good thing for Jason and I.
Jason takes the girls when ever he is home from work and we are still just taking our time. In a weird way, divorce was great for us. We are such stubborn, proud people that we couldn't communicate correctly. It was always a fight to see who could hurt the other the worst with words. Now, we can actually talk thru our issues without insults! I am so much happier right now.
I have been trying like crazy to find a job. Wow, that is so hard to do!!! Hardly any business' in my area are hiring for what I am qualified for. But, I am out there every day putting out as many resumes as I can! I know something will come eventually, ut it would be fabulous to have a job now before my extra spousal support runs out!!! lol
I know there probably is so much I am leaving out, but for the life of me, I really can't recall it right now! We had a fabulous Easter breakfast and service at church yesterday then I had the girls with me at my sister's Easter get together. It was such a gorgeous day!!!
I just wanted to let everyone know that I really appriciate all the very sweet thoughts and concerns for me and the girls, from my last post. Things are definitally looking up for me! I'll be back soon with pictures of the girls and more updates!